I think the problem isnt that they dont care it's more of a paladins have been in a good spot for a while and so they have not needed many gradual changes like other classes have gotten. Now all of these other classes are really shining with stoneskins on demand and snap aggro tools and our lack of the aforementioned is really starting to show with some of the new mechanics and encounter designs.
Im not calling for a guardian type overhaul because i dont think it is needed. There are a few easy things to fix that would help level the playing field of paladins and shadowknights as well. Like I said earlier, I can live with a lot of the nonsensical annoyances of some of our abilities if they can just work on fixing the things that will really make a difference in how effective we are at tanking and offtanking.