Thanks for the responses so far. Please continue with the advice.
Yeah seems to be where I am "messing" up is with the debuffs. I am so worried about warding and healing I dont think to debuff (slow) the mob (although I know its really useful!!)
For example last night my guild went to ToMC and on the naga (our last fight in the zone) I got the curse 2 or 3 times which I know would effect my parse slightly, but for a zonewide the MT templar did 26% and I only did a shameful 20%.
Then in YIS again I got spanked by the MT templar. I wont even post those percentages.
Yeah the MT templar has way better gear than myself and way more experience, but I should definitely be parsing higher than I was. Hopefully they give me another shot so I can try the debuffs thrown into the mix and go from there.