To add to that, in a monk roleplaying environment (which I'm not in, but appreciate the look a monk (in my eyes) should have), monks aren't glamour models (infact far from it). Just because so many people choose female monks because the Gi looks great, doesn't mean that male monks have to go around with effeminate designs. Male monks are hard done by enough with the ornate designs that cater for the female monks (whether played by moobs or women).
Out of interest (again) which Gi do you wear? Do you often wear the Blood Drenched Gi or do you just want your extensive Gi wardrobe at 100% satisfaction at all times?
Playing on a RP server I thought you might consider the monk for what it should be, not as a fashion statement..............