Woot, I tried numerous times last night and it worked , I can finally use my flank attack while soloing - I actually got it to work about 16 times out of 20 so I was well impressed - I'm hoping it wans't just that I picked mobs that were very suseptical (I think thats the work I'm looking for-though it might be spelt wrong) to my stun lol.
So, thanks for your advise guys/girls