All comes down to group setups really, it sounds like your doing all you can to stop yourself from getting agro.
If you have a Coercer/Dirge and a Troub then you need to explain to your Raid Leader where to put them better. I always make sure the Troub is with the group that has the least Deagro Utility since Rangers, Assassin, Swashies, Rogues ect can take care of themselves with there own abilities alot better than we can.
The key Classes you need in position are:
- Coercer or Dirge in MT group with their Agro buff on, I think Coercers also have a raid wide Deagro buff, not 100% sure on that point though we lost ours a while ago and are still to get another up to raiding level.
- Troub in your group with De agro buff on group.
None of the Above, or as an added Bonus?
Make friends with one of your guilds Paladins, best friends :smileytongue:, butter him up and make it so your his favorite person ever then get amends off him every time. If he really likes you he won't mind much when you get his [expletive haxx0red by Raijinn] handed to him because he is taking alot of your agro :smileyvery-happy:.
Our Raids normally Roll like this..
Zerk (MT), Defiler, Templar, Warden, Dirge, Pally MT Group.
SK (MA/Offtank), Mystic, Warden , Illusionst , Conjerer, Monk
Warlock (Me), Wiz, Necro, Troub, Fury, Swashy
Assasin, Ranger, Illu, Inquisitor, Wiz, Necro.
Not the Best I know but we Cope fine, not got to Deathtoll yet or tried any of the contested so we don't class ourselves as Hardcore Raiders, infact I'm sure alot of peeps here could pick loads of holes in that setup but we cope with what we have and have fun which is the main thing :smileyvery-happy:
With a Dirge in MT group and Troub in your group you will find it VERY hard to pull agro even if your trying, I'm not an Uber warlock by any means but I can parse 1000+ consistently like this and never pull agro off the tank. Also try and keep Broodling and Nethlord up as much as possible since they generate there own agro.
Thats all the advice I can give and some of it may not even be 100% right.