mostly i'm useing max mita gear for every fight, but will swap some resists on boss mobs mostly... playing around with my gear last night, i could either have ~5200 mita and 7500 HP, or 4800 mita and 8k HP... resists i can buff as needed...
the HP really comes down to the +HP per item, the sta will get capped fairly easy raid buffed... i think it really depends on if the encounter is spikeing me for a resist (magic seems like most common big spikes)... i think once i start getting raid loots the resists and stats will be more rounded and the gear has better base mita...